“The future is a fantasy that shapes our present.”

“Psychoanalysts are fond of pointing out that the past is alive in the present. But the future is alive in the present too. The future is not some place we're going to, but an idea in our mind now. It is something we're creating, that in turn creates us. The future is a fantasy that shapes our present.”

― Stephen Grosz, The Examined Life: How We Lose and Find Ourselves